Memorials of Connecticut Judges and Attorneys
As Printed in the Connecticut Reports
volume 43, page(s) 605-606
OBITUARY NOTICE OF NELSON L. WHITE
NELSON LLOYD WHITE, of Danbury, died at that place, on the 17th of November,
1876. He was born in that town on the 7th of April, 1812, in the house so long
occupied by his father, Colonel E. Moss White, and which, through the generosity
of a member of the family, is now the property of the Danbury Library
Association. On the 5th of July, 1836, Mr. White was married to Miss Sarah
Booth, daughter of David Booth, Esq., of Kent, who, with four children, survives
him. He studied law under the direction of Hon. Reuben Booth, and in 1840 was
admitted to the bar of Fairfield County. He was clerk of the State Senate in
1844 and 1845, and in 1847, 1848, and 1849, was Judge of Probate for the
district of Danbury. In 1856 he was a delegate to the first Republican National
Convention, at Philadelphia. From 1868 to 1874 he was State's Attorney for
Fairfield County, and discharged the duties of the office with singular ability
and faithfulness. On the breaking out of the rebellion in 1861 he joined the
Wooster Guards of Danbury as a private, and drilled in the company at New Haven,
but was rejected by the marshal, because his age was beyond the limit fixed by
law. Governor Buckingham immediately commissioned him as a field officer in the
4th Connecticut Infantry. This regiment enlisted for three years, was called to
the field in May, 1861, was sent into Virginia early in the summer of that year
under General Banks, and was afterwards transferred to the 1st Connecticut
Artillery, and took part in guarding the defenses at Washington. It was then
joined to the siege artillery, and served gallantly in the peninsular campaign,
and under General Grant in the siege of Petersburg and Richmond. Mr. White was
lieutenant-colonel of his regiment and sometimes served as inspector-general. He
was mustered out in 1864. His conduct in the army was uniformly that of a
high-toned gentleman. His moral influence and weight of character were felt
throughout the regiment, and he was universally honored and beloved by officers
and soldiers. His labors in behalf of the great temperance movement, as well in
the army as after his return, were rewarded by the benedictions of the wives and
children of many men who had been saved from ruin by his example and warnings.
He loved his profession ardently, and always stood up in defense of the right.
He had peculiar power as an advocate, and sometimes spoke with a fervor that
made him a dangerous antagonist before a jury. He was courteous in his demeanor,
liberal and unostentatious in his charities, and public-spirited to the full
extent of his means. He was fond of having pleasant little chats with his
neighbors, and was very sprightly in conversation. He had a temperament
eminently hopeful, which could over-ride losses and disappointments in the
anticipation of something better. He was devoted to his home and friends. He was
fond of books, especially those relating to history and poetry, and his love of
flowers and trees amounted to a passion. He was a man of courage--moral,
intellectual, and physical. He did not know what fear was in any of the
relations of life. He was a man of impulses and intuitions. He never waited to
hear the opinions of others in order to modulate the expression of his own and
shape them to some private end, but spoke as he thought and thought as he
breathed, with a spontaneity vital as his life. His intellect was moved by his
sensibilities, and these were in accord with a sense of right which could hardly
have forsaken him even in his sleep. Colonel White came of an old colonial
family, and lived up to its record. He possessed great personal advantages and a
peculiar patrician style and manner, but at the same time seemed unconscious of
them. The thought of himself found little place in his sympathetic and impulsive
nature, while the kindliness of his heart yielded only to his sense of justice
and his fidelity to truth.